Male Stripper Update: Thanks for praying for my time with Jack the Stripper. I asked him to share his story with me and, well, let’s just say it is an interesting one. His “spirit-guide” is Michael Jackson and he connects with Michael Jackson to help him manipulate the matrix of life, so I shared with him that I connect with Jesus and we had a fascinating discussion. We’re now working out (no, not on a pole, but in a gym) and reading through Mark together, so keep praying that Jack will trust Jesus and experience how much more real and powerful and gracious Jesus is than a dead Michael Jackson.
Curious Discussion Forum: We began a Curious Discussion Forum in our home last week and we had an amazing group of non-believers. One Mormon woman who is a lawyer, one man that hasn’t been to church since his Lutheran confirmation at age 10, a biochemist, a syncretistic woman who grew up in the Middle East and has created her own religion from what she considers to be the greatest hits of all the major religions, and my next door neighbor who has her law degree and her PH.D. in evolutionary biology. I asked them all why they are here and my neighbor (the lawyer/evolutionary biologist) said, “Because my worldview, that this world is all there is, that tooth and claw reign supreme, will no longer explain the date and circumstances of my life. It seems like there might be something more behind it all, despite what my professors and friends insist, and so I am taking this first step to start exploring.” Please pray I Thes 1:5 for this group, that the gospel would come to them “not simply with words, but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction.” Please pray that God would draw Tyler, an atheist, to the group as well.
Curious Discussion Forum Group meeting in my living room
Our Adoption Journey: My last request is a personal one. Our adoption of Ford has been one of the most beautiful experiences of our life and we would love for you to pray for his tender heart as he processes his own adoption. Our adoption is an open adoption and we’ve visited Ford’s birthparents 5 or 6 times with Ford, but recently a number of questions have been stirred up in his heart after a girl in his class was taken out of school and moved states due to a fostering change. So not too long ago I was putting Ford to bed and he asked, "Daddy, whose tummy were you in when you were a baby?" "Cici's tummy, Buddy." And then Ford so honestly said, "I wish I had been in Mommy's tummy." I immediately responded, "Buddy, if you had been born in Mama's tummy, then we would have never had one of the very BEST days of our lives -the day we adopted YOU!!!!!! We love adoption and we love you, and we pray that one day, you too will adopt a baby." Ford looked me square in the eyes and said with a big smile on his face, "Oh, I will adopt one day, Daddy!" Glory be!
Now, I will allow Bradford to tell you about her recent experience with Ford: About 6 weeks ago, as I was tucking in to bed, he asked if we could look at his baby book again, which has a picture of us holding him for the first time in the hospital room, with Rachel and Michael, his courageous birthparents, standing beside us. When we got to that picture, Ford said (with tears in his eyes), "I was scared that Rachel would want to keep me." Wow! His precious heart is thinking BIG thoughts. I asked him, "Did you know that you will never ever go back to Rachel? You are our son FOREVER!" He was quiet for a while, and I asked him again. He answered, "No." I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to tell him, “Ford you will NEVER EVER leave us. You are always our son! You will never go back to Rachel. You are ours and will always be a Phelan!" I asked him if he had any more questions, and he said, "Yes. One more. Why did you and dad choose me?" Wow! again. What an amazing opportunity for an adoptive parent. " We chose you because we loved you from the moment we knew about you and we just think you are amazing." As he was drifting off to sleep, he whispered, "Mama, you are beautiful." Another Wow! Melt. Melt. What a gift Ford gave to me - sharing his beautiful heart and encouraging me with his tender words. Ford continues to bring up deep, heart-wrenching yet healthy questions about his adoption and why Rachel gave him to us. We are so thankful that he is opening his heart and sharing his questions and tears with us. Pray that Ford will celebrate his adoption and that he will feel totally secure in our love for him and in God’s love for him.
Ford and me spending some quality time together
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